FW[?} : words to think about..

...god, i love my household. i should've picked this up ealier.

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From: Christian Belisario
To: Brian Padua
Subject: words to think about..
Date: Tue, 28 Jun 2005 22:48:07 -0400 (EDT)


ON LOVING AND LETTING GO...

You must realize that you have to let go now before it consumes you and your sanity. There is always a time to think and stop. A time to be sensible and not to allow our hearts to rule over our heads.
YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY NOT IN THE ARMS OF A
MAN/WOMAN WHO KEEPS YOU WAITING BUT IN THE ARMS OF SOMEONE WHO WILL TAKE YOU NOW AND LOVE YOU FOREVER.
If loving a person who is attached to someone else is a crime,
then, maybe, many of us would have been jailed long before we realize what
its consequences could have been. Loving someone
is never a sin...it's what people do out of love
that sometimes makes it all wrong. The selfish
desire to want that person is what makes it a sin.


DON'T THINK ONLY OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR REAL LOVE
DOESN'T HAVE A PLACE FOR SELFISH PEOPLE.
When there is love, there is always sacrifice.
When we love someone, we never easily give up on
that person. Even is we get hurt badly, we always
try to find a way to ease the pain and learn to
understand and forgive. Loving too much doesn't
hurt...it is when we expect this love to be
reciprocated that we begin to seek approval and
acceptance of the things we have done and when we
are taken for granted and rejected, we curse the
very same love that we once freely and happily offered.


DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME WAITING FOR SOMEONE WHO
NEVER REALLY CARED ABOUT HOW YOU WOULD HAVE FELT.
OPEN YOUR HEART AGAIN AND
GIVE YOURSELF THE CHANCE TO FIND THE ONE WHO WOULD
MAKE LOVING WORTH THE PAIN AND THE SACRIFICE.
Just like anything else, our love grows weak and dies, if not taken cared of. It can keep up with pain only to a certain extent. Beyond that, it withers without any hope of recovery and soon dies.

GOD WAKES US IN THE MIDST OF A STORM TO TEACH US A
LESSON. HE TAKES AWAY PEOPLE WE LOVE SO WE CAN
LEARN TO VALUE LOVE ITSELF. HE MAKES US CRY SO
HARD SO WE CAN SEE CLEARLY WHEN WE OPEN OUR EYES.
HE MAKES US BITTER SO WE CAN REALIZE THAT THERE IS
NO GENUINE HAPPINESS IF WE THINK ONLY OF OUR OWN
NEEDS AND NOT OF OTHERS.

Relationships built on jealousy and selfishness
are doomed from the very beginning. The hardest part of losing love is
letting go and moving on. Most of us cry endlessly
over things that could have been but never will be. God allows us to experience pain to make us stronger and better persons. He will see us through the most trying and difficult times in our lives, and
only if we put our trust in Him can we learn to find joy in our tears and happiness in our sorrows. In many failed relationships, separation
comes as the inevitable choice but moving on always proves to be twice as difficult as letting go. Sometimes, our choice to hold on is beyond the
control of circumstances. Letting go is a decision that can never be
dictated on us. It is a resolution we make to ourselves.
Acceptance is the key to a new beginning and time is the healer of all wounds. Even if the storm casts its fearful shadow, there will always be light after our darkness and loneliest moments. There is always hope for those who believe. There is always a chance for those who try.

LOSING SOMEONE WE LOVE MAY NOT BE A LOSS AT ALL
BUT A BLESSING BECAUSE SOMEONE EVEN MORE DESERVING
IS YET TO COME.
There is nothing wrong in expressing our feelings
to someone we love, but WE MUST ALWAYS BE
SENSITIVE TO THE SIGNALS THAT TELL US WHEN TO
RATIONALIZE AND BE SENSIBLE. There comes a time in
our lives when we would fall for someone who
wouldn't be as interested as we are because his
attention is focused on someone else. There are
many times when we love but don't get love in
return. THERE ARE TIMES WHEN THE SIGN AHEAD SAYS
STOP BUT WE STILL STUBBORNLY HEAD ON.
We would say our love is unconditional...but if it
really is, then we should never feel bad. But why do we get frustrated when
love turns sour? Because we still subconsciously
seek acceptance and assurance from the people we
care about.

BEING IN LOVE CAN BE THE MOST WONDERFUL THING WE
COULD EXPERIENCE BUT IF THE FEELING BEGINS TO
CONSUME OUR WHOLE BEING, THEN WE HAVE TO STOP AND
LET OUR MINDS AND NOT OUR HEARTS DICTATE OUR
ACTIONS. ONLY WHEN WE LEARN TO ACCEPT OUR FATE
AND UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF OUR FAILURES CAN WE
TRULY GO ON WITH LIFE. WITHOUT HAVING TO LOOK BACK
AND CRY OVER THE THINGS THAT COULD HAVE BEEN BUT
WILL NEVER BE