HEART[for reference]

HEART:
Do you wait until they greet you or do you reach out to them first with joy?
Do you try to say hello to everyone or do you select only a few?
Do you mingle and show interest in other people's interests or choose only that interests you?
Do you invite them into your life or do you avoid talking about it?
Do you make them feel warm and welcome around you or do they feel uncomfortable?
Do you offer them what you have or not have, or do you shy away from offering?
Do you smile to them or often have a blank face when you look at them in the eye?
Do you call them out of the blue seeing how they are and listen to them?
Do you show them courtesy even if they are not to you?
Do you get out of your way or do things that is just reasonable?
Do you make others feel important or let them gain your attention first?
Do you earn their respect first or do you wait until they have earned yours?
Do you tire yourself for them or do you like to be always comfortable?
Do you choose who to help or help everyone despite you like them or not?
Do you make yourself available or does it need to be scheduled?
Do you shun people you dislike or be respectful and accept who they are?
Do you think how hard to be in their shoes or how hard it is to be in your shoes?
Do you think that you deserve what you have worked hard for or have your worked hard but have no expectations?

What does Jesus do in all these questions? Repeat the questions again and would your answers be different?

Ask yourself, have you earned their trust (not them earning yours first) to let your heart known to them?